My ex accuses me of not knowing the true meaning of forgiveness. My thought is, I forgive you the way I can not how he wants it. If he thinks I should fully embrace his relationship with his mistress then he'll be waiting for something that will never come. I dont think I can ever let his mistress step inside my home nor be in the same breathing space as me and my kids. I never pretended to be a saint, but I accept that he will always be around because we do have kids together. That does not extend to his mistress even when he becomes his wife eventually. And my kids had expressed that they don't want to be around her either. He made his choice, we never had a chance to. The mere fact that I still talk to him, proves I've forgiven him. Seriously, I don't owe him anything. And I certainly don't have any respect for women who's in a relationship with a married man.
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